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Do you yearn to feel closer in your relationship? See how Tantra could be the solution for you

What is Tantra?

We've described Tantra in detail before in another blog post here...

But today I want to go deeper into why your relationship may need Tantra.

I was asked recently to describe Tantra "in one sentence".

I found this a challenge to describe Tantra in a nutshell, because Tantra is so vast and so deeply profound, but this is what I came up with.... several different sentences...

  • Tantra is a slow way of epic love making

  • A meditative approach to intimacy

  • It's not the standard way of having sex, it is much deeper emotionally

  • Tantric sex literally means "union"and it is about harmonizing your energy together

  • Tantra is not about positions, it is about taking your time with foreplay

  • Tantric sex helps you breathe into eachother, and helps you to feel more connected with your partner

  • Tantra re-sensitizes your sense of touch so that every cell in your body feels awakened and this energises your whole being

  • Tantric sex is about slowing things down, it is not about chasing the orgasm or any particular outcome

  • Tantra is an approach to sex and intimacy that will blow your socks off !

  • Once you go Tantra you will never go back to ordinary sex !

  • Tantra is a spiritual approach to sex, it's not just the physical act of sex

  • Tantra is a heart centred approach to intimacy

So why does your relationship need Tantra?

I see more and more with the couples that I teach, and also in my own personal life, that Tantra really is the solution for everyone and anyone that wants to feel closer. This is because the very nature of Tantra doesn't let you get caught up with body image or any specific outcome. Tantra opens the door to exploring a softer and more gentle way to appreciate your partner, and this works both ways. The more you appreciate your partner, the more they will appreciate you, and it is this very act of appreciation that will help to cultivate UNCONDITIONAL LOVE between you.

Tantra gives you PERMISSION to take things slowly and to enjoy the subtle nuances that make your partner the unique being that they are and this deepens your bond with them.

Tantra allows you to SEE eachother for who you both really are - as vulnerable humans.

Tantra allows you to WITNESS eachother in a more profound way and gives you a deeper sense of connection. When you have the opportunity to see someone's vulnerable side - these are the moments of grace. These are the moments that energises you together because you have shared something special that nobody else gets to see.

Tantra harnesses GRATITUDE between two people and it is within this space that your bond becomes more gentle and more enduring.

COMPASSION is a big reason to let Tantra be your guide. Tantra helps you cultivate EMPATHY for eachother in such a profound way that you never knew existed.

Tantra is a feedback loop. With all the feel-good neuro-chemicals that are released during sex and that are released as you cultivate deeper empathy, gratitude, compassion and love for eachother, the deeper you go into your connenction, the deeper you will want to go, and the more you will feel INSPIRED to explore.

Our Tantra Lovers...

Tantra puts the sparkle back into your sex life. Here is some sparkle from recent Tantra lovers at SummerHills Retreat....

“We are so happy to report that after leaving SummerHills, that our connection is even stronger after our course, so the business of life hasn’t gotten in the way of our time together (even if it’s only been by phone during the times that we have to be apart!) Thank you so much once again Francesca for your patience, love, and instruction. We will never forget how much additional love you have brought in to our relationship! And we also found your venue to be the most beautiful setting for our life-changing weekend“ A & S (Canberra, Australia)

“Came here on a four night, five day Tantra retreat. The grounds were gorgeous, the host was amazing, and the course instruction was top notch. Our private cabin was fully equipped, and the host even stocked the fridge for us. Heaps of wildlife and interesting foliage on the well-kept grounds made for interesting walks and beautiful sunsets. We were well looked after and absolutely enjoyed our stay!” Erlie E (San Antonio USA) via Yelp

“What we loved most about our Tantra course was that the philosophy of Tantra was so well explained, and this was backed up by practical exercises to do every day while we were there which we found easy to follow and effective! And we have also managed to keep it going now that we are back home, so that’s saying something ! Thank you Summer Hills Retreat for such a profound weekend that we will never forget, you have changed our lives forever, and for the good. Now that we are Tantric, we will never go back to the old way of intimacy !” J & J (Melbourne, Australia)

“We would highly recommend doing this Tantra course at Summerhills. We thought we were already close but our intimacy has just gone to another level. We feel even closer now than ever before and our sex life is so much more like we want it to be. Our cabin for the course was lovely, the instructor was very knowledgeable and experienced and we found learning the steps to be allot of fun. It was such an unforgettable experience that I wish everyone knew how life changing Tantra could be for their relationships. I just want to shout it from the rooftops! I am telling all my friends to do this!” K & G (Byron Bay, Australia)

“We were just curious about what all the fuss was about with “Tantra”, we were already pretty happy with our relationship, but what we discovered was a new sense of playfulness between us and more confidence to talk about our intimacy – our likes and dislikes. As a long term relationship I guess it’s easy to fall into a groove, so learning Tantra has ticked all the boxes for us in terms of trying something new. It’s also surprised us how much we didn’t know about eachother! We are so glad we did this – we feel an even deeper sense of relaxed-ness between us. And we definitely got the sparkle back J Thank you to Summerhills retreat for putting on such a great course. We thoroughly enjoyed it and we’ve told everyone how good it is. We’re already talking about coming back every year for a refresher!” A & N (Gold Coast, Australia)

“We’ve been married 15 years and our sex life was in trouble. A friend recommended we do this course to help us along and help us along it did! We have found a new way of connecting and we are loving the results. Suffice to say we are no longer in trouble. Thank you to Francesca for such a fantastic experience.” K & B (Brunswick Heads, Australia)

“Francesca we can’t thank you enough from the bottom of our hearts for helping us in our marriage. We just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and both of us were unhappy with where our intimacy was at. Tantra really has been a silver bullet. We are back home now and thoroughly enjoying our new found “practice” and for the first time in a few years we both feel confident that we will be okay in that department. We have learnt the skills and the words to stay deeply connected. Blessings and thank you for sharing your deep wisdom on this topic for others to have better lives.” G & L (Amsterdam, Netherlands)

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** Please note that as everybody is different and learns a new skill at different speeds, specific results can not be guaranteed. However we can guarantee that you will have lots of laughs and fun along the way. Tantra is a lifelong skill - the more you put into it, the more you will get out of it, and the more you practice, the more you will get better at it !

Be sure to check out our new meditation courses as well.

And we look forward to welcoming you to the start of your Tantric Journey and the potential for a more fulfilling sex life, a deeper connection with yourself and your partner, greater health benefits and more vitality for life.

xx Francesca - Owner and Founder

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